Tuesday, February 21, 2017

The Post About #HurtBae, #StrandedBae, and Relationships

If you have been online for the past week, then you have absolutely heard about these two stories. A few days ago, The Scene thought it would be a good idea to make a video where two exes sit across from each and relive their awful relationship. It started with a beautiful girl sitting across an obvious fuckboi asking him about how many times he cheated. If you watch the whole thing, your heart will hurt and you want to smack the stupid ass smirk off of his face. 
The video starts with her recanting a story about how she saw him with another girl while they were together. They lived in the same apartment and when she saw this, he told her to leave and she did! Honestly, I would have decked them both in the mouth. Throughout the whole video, she starts to tear up and the boy just doesn't give a fuck. It was a really sad video and just a really bad idea honestly! I get that you would want to reconnect with your ex to find closure, but she doesn't need closure. They have both moved on with their lives and grown from that experience. You can see that it still hurts her to think about it because he was her best friend and she loved him. He didn't care because he's an asshole.
Watching this video will make you relive a very bad relationship you probably never got over. The girl who used to be in that relationship is now with someone who loves her and the guy is traveling the world.  
But if you are still reeling from that video, get ready for this crazy ass ride! 
I wanted to take a day before writing this article about #StrandedBae because there are about 7 or 8 threads about what has happened in this story. The story first broke at 3 am on Monday night and I was trying to catch up on Monday afternoon after class. 
This is the synopsis of what I understand happened. There are two people who have been dating for a month. He has a t shirt with her face on it and they make plans to meet on Valentine's day. They have sex and he drops her off at the airport. She misses her flights (as in all of them) and keeps calling him to pick her up. She has no money and she is getting evicted out of her apartment, so she has no money and no home and no way home. She goes back to his apartment asking for money and he is fucking another girl. 
I have to say that I am so mad about all of these hurt feelings and all of this wasted money in both of these situations. The girl in #StrandedBae was manipulated by a guy who just wanted to fuck. #StrandedBae shows how men will use their feelings and emotions to get women then blame women for being emotional connected.
These two stories show how you can fall in love and find out that the person that you are with is not who you believed them to be. It's very sad that these situations were put online for everyone to see and comment on. But it shows that harmful relationships are not rare and that everyone goes through them. But it makes me happy that I don't have a boyfriend.
That's all I have to say on this. Another post will up in a few hours. Have a great day guys!

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